JANUARY 2008

Got the mid-winter blues? Liven up the season with some special activities for Valentine’s Day. The day isn’t just for sweethearts. You can use the occasion of St. Valentine’s Day to reflect on love and friendship among family and friends. Although the conventional gifts are cards, candy, and flowers, you can show appreciation for the special people in your life with simple touches of sentiment.

Here are a few heart-to-heart ideas to celebrate this special day of love with your senior adults.

  • Define the word love. List synonyms for love. Encourage reminiscing about the many kinds of love, including romantic, platonic, and divine.
    • Read or name clichés/idioms with love or heart, e.g., head over heels in love, the love of your life, love at first sight, wear your heart on your sleeve, follow your heart. Ask participants to explain each one.
  • Learn the story of Saint Valentine and the origin of Valentine’s Day. Ask: Why do we celebrate this special day? Pass out "Be My Valentine" cards. Ask participants to give some other names for Valentine, e.g., sweetheart, sweetie, true love.
  • For chocolate lovers, sample favorite chocolate treats: chocolate-covered cherries, Hershey’s Kisses, truffles, brownies, chocolate-covered strawberries.
  • Listen to the song "Puppy Love," performed by Paul Anka in 1960. Ask participants to define "puppy love." Encourage them to reminisce about their first love, a secret crush, or an infatuation.
  • Listen to the piano rendition of some old-fashioned love songs, such as "I Love You Truly," "Somewhere, My Love," "Let Me Call You Sweetheart," or "True Love."
  • Name some popular songs from the 20th century with "heart" in the title. (Examples: "I Left My Heart at the Stage Door Canteen," "Ya Gotta Have Heart," "My Heart Cries for You," "If I Give You My Heart," "Let Me Call You Sweetheart," "Heart of My Heart.") Fill a small jar with small Valentine conversation hearts. Ask each group member to guess the number of hearts in the jar.
  • Display cutouts of symbols associated with Valentine’s Day: Cupid, doves, love knots, roses, red hearts/arrows. Discuss the meaning of each one.
  • Encourage group members to recall tokens of love or keepsakes they have received for Valentine’s Day. Display vintage lace doilies or handkerchiefs with lace trim and embroidered hearts. Ask how lace came to be associated with the special day.
  • Enjoy an old-fashioned romantic comedy movie, such as The Philadelphia Story with Cary Grant, Katharine Hepburn, and Jimmy Stewart.
  • Read Robert Burns’ "A Red, Red Rose."Ask: How is love like a red rose? Decorate with silk red rose petals.
  • Ask the ladies if they have ever been treated to a new fragrance on Valentine’s Day. Name some favorite vintage scents, e.g., Evening in Paris (remember the cobalt blue bottle?), Chanel No. 5, L’Air du Temps, Arpege, Miss Dior.
  • Host a Valentine Tea Party for grandmothers, mothers, and daughters. Encourage guests to wear red or pink. Serve heart-shaped cookies or scones and herbal teas.
  • Read some friendship stories or poems. Ask group members how they show gratitude and affection for best friends on Valentine’s Day. For some humor, watch an episode of "I Love Lucy" with best friends Lucy Ricardo and Ethel Mertz.
  • Reminisce about special Valentine’s Day trips or getaways. Ask group members to name the 10 most romantic places in the world. (Try the trivia quiz on Paris, France, found later in this newsletter.)
  • Divide the participants into small groups around tables and play the popular card game Hearts. Snack on heart-shaped cookies.

The latest ElderSong catalog features a variety of resources, including books, games, CDs, and DVDs. Check out the new CDs by Frank Sinatra and Tony Bennett - the perfect music for Valentine’s Day!

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VALENTINE’S DAY CELEBRATIONS

Stir nostalgic memories of love and romance with some special music on Valentine’s Day. Love songs hold a special place in our hearts. Ol’ Blue Eyes will tug at the heartstrings. The 3-CD set Frank Sinatra: Greatest Hits features many of Sinatra’s hits from the 1950s and 1960s. Enjoy favorites such as "My Funny Valentine," "Young at Heart," "Love & Marriage," "(Love Is) The Tender Trap," and "All the Way." Share a sweet memory or two. Ask: How did you meet your spouse? What was your courtship like? Did you and your loved one share a special song?

You’ll win hearts with the 3-CD set Tony Bennett: The Good Life. The collection features 32 songs, including his trademark tune, "I Left My Heart in San Francisco." Other favorites: "Funny Valentine," "It’s Magic," "The Very Thought of You," "Just in Time," and "Who Can I Turn To?"

Looking for Valentine’s Day activities for memory-impaired adults? Promote conversation and connection in your group with the Two-Lap Book series. The second book in the series, Happy New Year to You! A Read-Aloud Book for Memory-Challenged Adults, features colorful illustrations and easy-to-read text about each month of the year. The book is full of comforting images such as celebrating the New Year, singing in the April rain, enjoying the flowers in May, going on picnics in August, and watching the leaves fall in October. You’ll find conversation starters at the end of the book as well as suggested songs for each month. Read the whole book or concentrate on a page or two, and then reminisce, laugh, and sing as you celebrate each month of the year. (Also available: The Sunshine on My Face [W3105], the first book in the series.

For February, you can use the illustration on celebrating Valentine’s Day to stimulate conversation on love. Song suggestions include favorites such as "I Only Have Eyes for You" and "Some Enchanted Evening."

For more help with memory-impaired adults, use the Family DVD in the Memory Lane series. This entertaining film will uncover a lifetime of love and special memories - times with family and friends. Nostalgic themes include Dating, Marriage, Babies, Child’s Play, Little Ballerinas, Baseball, Birthdays, Family Vacations, and Graduations. Familiar family events are presented in photo collections, home movies, and personal stories from seniors, all set to period music. Enjoy songs such as "Love and Marriage," "In the Mood," "My Favorite Things," "Baby Face," and "Rock Around the Clock." Reminisce about a particular family milestone - for example, dating - with scenes from Big Band ballroom dancing and a personal story of "love at first sight."




PARIS TRIVIA QUIZ

To sweethearts, Valentine’s Day is one of the most romantic days of the year. Take a "trip" with your loved one to Paris, France, often cited as one of the most romantic places in the world. Watch a travel video on the popular getaway with your group. Challenge participants to a trivia quiz.

  1. What is the French phrase for "I love you"? Je t’aime
  2. In which Paris museum of art can you view the Mona Lisa? The Louvre
  3. This famous tower in Paris, known as "Iron Lady," attracts millions of tourists. Eiffel Tower
  4. Which river flows through the city of Paris? Seine River
  5. What do Chanel, Christian Dior, and Givenchy have in common? All are fashion designers.
  6. Which well-known landmark is referred to as "Our Lady of Paris"? Cathedral of Notre-Dame
  7. Paris is often called the "City of…" what? Light
  8. Before the adoption of the new currency, the euro, what was the basic currency used in France? Franc
  9. You might enjoy this classic French custard dessert with a caramelized topping. Crème brulee
  10. The French artists Claude Monet, Edgar Degas, and Pierre-Auguste Renoir are known for this style of painting. Impressionism



FEATURED PRODUCTS FOR JANUARY - 15% off

Frank Sinatra: Greatest Hits - 36 songs on 3 CDs - Regular price $27.95. January online price $23.75

Tony Bennett: The Good Life. - 36 songs on 3 CDs - Regular price $27.95. January online price $23.75

Happy New Year to You! A Read-Aloud Book for Memory-Challenged Adults, - 21-page hardcover book - Regular price $18.95. January online price $16.10

Family DVD - 30-minute DVD - Regular price $19.95. January online price $16.95


THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH

"At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet." ~ Plato




The ElderSong online newsletter is written by Sue Hansen.
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